You Do Not Have to Wear Lingerie
This is the first thing I tell every client. Boudoir does not require lingerie. It never has. Some of my most powerful images have been shot in an oversized button-down, a favorite t-shirt, or nothing but a bedsheet and good light.
The best outfit for your boudoir session is the one that makes you feel like yourself — or the version of yourself you want to see. If you are still figuring out what that looks like, take a look at my portfolio for inspiration.
What Actually Looks Good on Camera
There are a few things that consistently photograph well in boudoir, regardless of body type:
- Bodysuits — They create a seamless silhouette and work on every figure. High-cut legs elongate. Deep necklines add dimension. If you buy one thing, make it a bodysuit.
- Matching sets — A coordinated bra and underwear set reads as intentional and elevated, even if it is simple.
- Oversized layers — A men's dress shirt, an open flannel, a cozy cardigan. Layers give us options and create movement in the frame.
- Something personal — A jersey from your partner, your favorite pair of jeans unbuttoned, a vintage slip you found at a thrift store. Personal items tell your story.
What to Avoid
- Brand new, never-worn underwear — If it is uncomfortable and you keep adjusting it, that will show. Wear what you have already broken in, or buy something new and wear it around the house first.
- Anything too small — Sizing up actually photographs better. Fabric that digs in creates lines that are distracting on camera. Comfort reads as confidence.
- Neon colors and busy patterns — These pull focus from you. Solid tones, muted colors, and classic black or white tend to look best.
How Many Outfits Should You Bring?
I recommend three to four outfit options. That gives us enough variety without the session feeling rushed. A typical breakdown:
- Something bold — your main look, the one that makes you feel powerful
- Something soft — cozy, intimate, and relaxed
- Something minimal — stripped down, simple, and raw
- A wildcard — something fun, unexpected, or deeply personal to you
You Will Get Guidance Before Your Session
You do not need to figure this out alone. Before your session, I send a detailed prep guide with outfit suggestions tailored to you. We will talk about what you already own, what might be worth picking up, and what fits the vision you have for your photos. If you want the full rundown on getting ready, read my guide on how to prepare for your first boudoir shoot.
Bring Everything and We Will Decide Together
When in doubt, bring more than you think you need. Throw it all in a bag. We will look through everything together at the start of the session and build a plan. Some of the best moments happen with pieces clients almost left at home.
Your boudoir session is about you. What you wear should reflect that — not a magazine, not a trend, just you. Have more questions? Check out my FAQ or reach out directly and we will figure it out together.